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Episode 43: Family estrangement with Dr Karl Pillemer
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Episode 43: Family estrangement with Dr Karl Pillemer

Family estrangement is a silent epidemic affecting millions, yet it's rarely discussed openly. In this episode of Reconsidering, we sit down with Dr. Karl Pillemer, a leading sociologist and gerontologist, to explore the complexities of fractured family relationships. Drawing from his extensive research, including the Cornell Family Reconciliation Project, Dr. Pillemer offers evidence-based insights and practical advice on how to navigate and mend these deep-seated rifts.​

In this episode we cover:

  • The prevalence and impact of family estrangement in modern society

  • Common causes and misconceptions surrounding familial rifts

  • Strategies for initiating reconciliation and fostering healing

  • The role of empathy, communication, and forgiveness in rebuilding relationships​

About Dr. Karl Pillemer
Dr. Karl Pillemer is the Hazel E. Reed Professor of Human Development at Cornell University and Professor of Gerontology in Medicine at Weill Cornell Medical College. He is renowned for his work on aging, family dynamics, and intergenerational relationships. Dr. Pillemer is the founder of the Cornell Legacy Project and the Cornell Family Reconciliation Project, initiatives aimed at capturing the wisdom of older adults and addressing the challenges of family estrangement.

Notable Works:

  • Fault Lines: Fractured Families and How to Mend Them

  • 30 Lessons for Living: Tried and True Advice from the Wisest Americans

  • 30 Lessons for Loving: Advice from the Wisest Americans on Love, Relationships, and Marriage

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